The Crucial Role of Empathy in Church Security: Building a Safe Haven with Compassion

I wish to clarify that although I am employed by the public school system, this blog does not aim to criticize, undermine, or suggest any deficiencies in the school where I work. Rather, its purpose is to provide assistance to other schools, administrators, or staff members who may be uncertain about where to begin in addressing emergency situations. Having talked to numerous rural schools, I've observed a common lack of knowledge regarding available resources or protocols for handling threats or emergencies within their facilities. This blog aims to serve as a starting point for such individuals, offering guidance and resources to enhance safety and preparedness.

In the world we live in, the need for security measures in places of worship has become increasingly evident. Churches, temples, mosques, and synagogues, one considered sanctuaries of peace, are now sadly vulnerable to various threats. While implementing robust security protocols is undoubtedly necessary, there’s one aspect that’s often overlooked but equally vital: Empathy.

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, and it holds profound significance in the context of church security. It goes beyond physical safety measures and delves into the emotional and psychological well-being of the congregation. Here’s why empathy should be at the forefront of any church security strategy:

1.      Cultivating Trust: Building a secure environment begins with trust. Congregants must trust the security personnel tasked with their safety. Empathy plays a pivotal role here, as security personnel who genuinely empathize with the fears and concerns of worshippers are better equipped to establish trust-based relationships. When people feel understood and valued, they’re more likely to cooperate with security measures and report suspicious activities promptly.

2.      De-escalating Conflict: In tense situations, such as disputes or disturbances within the church premises, empathy can be a powerful tool for de-escalation. Security personnel trained in empathy understand the importance of listening attentively, showing respect, and diffusing conflicts with compassion. By acknowledging the emotions of those involved and addressing their underlying concerns, conflicts can often be resolved peacefully, minimizing the risk of escalation.

3.       Supporting Vulnerable Individuals: Places of worship often attract individuals in vulnerable situations seeking solace and support. Whether it’s someone struggling with mental health issues, experiencing domestic violence, or facing other challenges, empathy enables security personnel to recognize signs of distress and offer appropriate assistance. By fostering a culture of empathy, churches can become not only safe havens but also places of healing and refuge for those in need.

4.      Promoting Inclusivity: Empathy transcends differences and fosters inclusivity within the congregation. Security personnel who approach their duties with empathy are sensitive to the diverse backgrounds, beliefs, and experiences of worshippers, they understand the importance of creating an environment where everyone feels welcome and respected regardless of their race, ethnicity, gender, or socioeconomic status, in doing so, they contribute to a sense of community cohesion and unity.

5.      Preventing Radicalization and Extremism: Empathy can also play a crucial role in preventing radicalization and extremism within religious communities. By fostering open dialogue, understanding, and empathy, churches can create an atmosphere where individuals feel heard and supported, reducing the risk of them turning to extremist ideologies borne out of feelings of alienation or marginalization.

6.      Responding to Crises with Compassion: In the unfortunate event of a crisis, such as a natural disaster, act of violence, or medical emergency, empathy guides security personnel in their response, they understand the profound impact such events can have on individuals and communities and are trained to provide support with empathy and compassion. Whether it’s offering comfort to the injured, assisting with evacuation procedures, or providing emotional support to those affected, empathy ensures that the response is not only efficient but also deeply humane.

In conclusion, empathy is not just a desirable trait but an indispensable asset in ensuring church security. By placing empathy at the forefront of security strategies, churches can create a safe and nurturing environment where worshippers feel valued, supported, and protected. In doing so, they uphold the true essence of their faith – compassion, understanding, and love for one another.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

A Biological Ballet: Unraveling the Intricacies of Fight and Flight Adrenaline

In the intricate dance of human survival, the body’s response to stress plays a pivotal role. The adrenal system, a complex network of glands and hormones, orchestrates this dance, with two primary moves: Fight or Flight. These instinctual responses are fueled by adrenaline, a powerful hormone that prepares the body to face a threat or flee from danger. In this blog, we will explore the nuanced differences between fight and flight adrenaline and the reasons behind their production in our bodies.

Before diving into the specifics, it’s essential to grasp the fundamental role of adrenaline. Also known as epinephrine, adrenaline is a hormone and neurotransmitter produced by the adrenal glands, situated atop each kidney. When the brain perceives a threat or stressor, it triggers the release of adrenaline into the bloodstream, initiating a cascade of physiological changes to prepare the body for action.

Fight Adrenaline:

The fight response, often referred to as the “fight-or-flight” response, is characterized by heightened alertness, increased heart rate, and a surge of energy. Fight adrenaline primes the body for physical confrontation, promoting strength, endurance and focus. This type of response is crucial for situations where confronting a threat head-on is the most effective strategy.

Key Characteristics of Fight Adrenaline:

1.      Increased Strength:

Fight adrenaline enhances muscle strength and power, providing individuals with the physical prowess needed to confront a potential threat.

2.      Enhanced Focus:

The heightened state of alertness and increased blood flow to the brain improve cognitive function, allowing for quick decision-making and strategic thinking.

3.      Dilated Pupils:

The dilation of pupils increases visual acuity, enabling better perception of the surroundings and potential threats.

Flight Adrenaline:

On the other side of the stress-response spectrum is the flight reaction, designed for situations where evading danger is the optimal strategy. Flight adrenaline readies the body for swift and agile movement, allowing for a rapid escape from threatening situations.

Key Characteristics of Flight Adrenaline:

1.      Increased Speed and Agility:

Flight adrenaline redirects blood flow to the muscles involved in rapid movement, facilitating quick and agile responses.

2.      Heightened Senses:

Similar to fight adrenaline, flight adrenaline enhances sensory perception, aiding in swift and accurate navigation of the environment.

3.      Decreased Pain Sensation:

In flight mode, the body may exhibit reduced sensitivity to pain, allowing individuals to overcome obstacles more easily during escape.

Significance:

The fight-or-flight response is our main survival mechanism. When we look at the past civilizations in our world, we can see that encountering predators or hostile tribes necessitated quick decision-making between confronting the threat or fleeing to safety. The dual nature of the stress response ensures adaptability, enabling individuals to tailor their reactions based on the specific demands of a situation.

The dynamic interplay between fight and flight adrenaline showcases the incredible adaptability of the human body in response to stress. While these responses may have originated from our ancestors’ need to survive in a hostile environment, they continue to play a crucial role in modern life. Understanding the intricacies of these stress responses not only sheds light on our past but also provides insights into how our bodies cope with the challenges of our world today.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

The Art of Anticipation: Thinking Like a Criminal to Stay Safe

The world today may seem like it’s getting increasingly unpredictable, personal safety is a top priority for many of us. While it may sound counterintuitive, one effective approach to staying safe is to adopt the mindset of a criminal. By understanding the thought processes and motivations that drive criminal behavior, individuals can better protect themselves. In the blog, we’ll explore the importance of thinking like a criminal to avoid dangerous situations and enhance personal safety.

1.      Understanding the Criminal Mindset:

To anticipate and avoid potential threats, it’s essential to delve into the psyche of a criminal. Criminals often operate based on opportunity, vulnerability, and a calculated risk-reward analysis. By examining situations from a criminal perspective, you can identify potential weak points in their own security and take steps to mitigate risks.

2.      Identifying High-Risk Situations:

Thinking like a criminal involves recognizing environments and situations that are more likely to attract criminal activity. Understanding the factors that make a location or situation high-risk allows you to make informed decisions about where to go and when. This heightened awareness can significantly reduce the chances of falling victim to crime.

3.      Developing Situational Awareness:

Criminals excel at exploiting distractions and vulnerabilities in their targets. By cultivating situational awareness, you can stay one step ahead of potential threats. This includes paying attention to your surroundings, avoiding distractions, and being mindful of the people and activities in your vicinity. Situational awareness is a powerful tool for preventing crime and ensuring personal safety.

4.      Enhancing Home Security:

A criminal’s first consideration is often the ease of access to a target. By adopting a criminal mindset, individuals can evaluate their homes for potential weaknesses, such as poorly lit areas, vulnerable entry points, or visible valuable. Making strategic improvements to home security can act as a deterrent and protect against potential intruders.

5.      Securing Personal Information:

Criminals often exploit personal information for various illicit activities, including identity theft and fraud. Thinking like a criminal involves safeguarding personal information, such as passwords, financial details, and social media profiles. This proactive approach can prevent falling victim to cybercrime and other forms of exploitation.

6.      Learning from Criminal Tactics:

By studying common criminal tactics, you can gain insights into potential threats and develop effective counter-strategies. This could involve understanding the techniques used in scams, pickpocketing, or home burglaries. Being aware of these tactics empowers you to take preventative measures and avoid becoming an easy target.

While thinking like a criminal may seem unorthodox, it is a valuable strategy for enhancing personal safety. By understanding the motivations and tactics of criminals, you can identify potential threats, mitigate risks, and make informed decisions to protect yourself and your loved ones. The key lies in developing a proactive mindset that prioritizes situational awareness, home security, and the safeguarding of your personal information. By adopting these principles, you can navigate the complexities of the modern world with greater confidence and resilience against potential dangers.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

A Concealed Carry Imperative: Is it Necessary to Carry a Round in the Chamber.

If you choose to concealed carry you take on a significant responsibility that demands carful consideration of various factors, including training, mindset, and equipment. Among the many debates within the concealed carry community, the question of carrying with a round in the chamber stands out as a pivotal topic. Some argue for the added safety of carrying without a round in the chamber, while others emphasize the critical importance of being ready for immediate action. I believe carrying without a round in the chamber thinking you can rack your slide and fire a shot in time, is equivalent to driving your car without your seatbelt on thinking you can buckle it just before an accident happens. In this blog, we delve into the reasons why carrying with a round in the chamber is a crucial aspect of responsible concealed carry.

1.      Reduced Reaction Time:

In a self-defense situation, time is of the essence. Having to chamber a round adds a significant delay in your response time. when confronted with a threat, every fraction of a second counts, and a delay in reacting could be the difference between life and death. Carrying with a round in the chamber allows for a quicker and more effective response to potential dangers.

2.      Increased Situational Awareness:

Being able to maintain situational awareness is paramount when carrying concealed. Having to chamber a round takes attention away from your surroundings, potentially leaving you vulnerable to unforeseen threats. Carrying with a round in the chamber allows you to stay focused on your environment, giving you a better chance of identifying potential dangers before they escalate.

3.      Stress and Motor Skills:

In high-stress situations, fine motor skills can deteriorate, making complex tasks more challenging to perform. Racking the slide to chamber a round requires fine motor skills that may be compromised under stress. Carrying with a round in the chamber eliminates the need for this additional step, ensuring that your firearm is ready to use even when your stress levels are elevated.

4.      Maintaining a Defensive Posture:

Carrying with a round in the chamber allows you to always maintain a defensive posture. If a threat arises suddenly, you won’t have to compromise your position or draw unnecessary attention to yourself by chambering a round. The element of surprise is a critical component of self-defense, and carrying with a round in the chamber helps you retain that advantage.

5.      Training for Safety:

Responsible concealed carry involves extensive training to ensure safe and effective firearm use. Carrying with a round in the chamber necessitates proper training on holstering and drawing techniques to minimize the risk of accidental discharges. Through consistent and focused training at Goldbar Defense, carriers can develop the skills and confidence needed to safely handle their firearm with a round in the chamber. In every firearms class we offer you will always go over the four safety rules:

A.     Treat every gun as though it were loaded.

B.     Never point your gun at anything you’re not willing to destroy.

C.     Keep your finger OFF the trigger and outside the trigger guard until you are on target and ready to shoot.

D.    Always be sure of your target, beyond it, and around it.

In the realm of concealed carry, the decision to carry with a round in the chamber is a deeply personal one. However, understanding the advantages of having a round chambered can be crucial in making an informed choice. By prioritizing reduced reaction time, increased situational awareness, stress management, and maintaining a defensive posture, and training with Goldbar Defense, carriers can better equip themselves for potential threats. Remember, responsible concealed carry is not just about having a firearm-it’s about being prepared to use it effectively and safely in the face of danger.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Mastering Life’s Battles: Applying the Art of War in Everyday Scenarios

Sun Tzu’s “The Art of War,” an ancient Chinese military treatise, is widely regarded as a timeless guide to strategy and tactics. While originally written for military leaders, the principles found in this classic work are surprisingly applicable to various aspects for our everyday lives as I have laid out in previous blogs (church security, and the workplace). In this blog, we’ll explore how the wisdom of “The Art of War” can be harnessed to navigate the challenges of modern living.

1.      Know Yourself and Your Environment:

 In “The Art of War,” Sun Tzu emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and understanding your surroundings. This principle can be applied in daily life by taking the time to assess your strengths, weaknesses, and the factors influencing your decisions. Whether you’re facing personal or professional challenges, a thorough understanding of yourself and our environment is crucial for success.

2.      Adaptability and Flexibility:

 One of Sun Tzu’s key teachings is the necessity of adaptability. In the business world, relationships, or personal development, being flexible and open to change is essential. Rigidity can lead to stagnation, while those who can adjust their strategies based on circumstances are more likely to thrive. We are creatures of habit, and it is hard to accept change at times. But we must step out of our comfort zones in order to adapt and move forward.

3.      Strategy and Planning:

 Sun Tzu stresses the importance of strategic thinking and planning. In daily life, setting goals, creating plans, and considering potential obstacles can significantly increase your chances of success. Whether you’re planning a career move, a project, or a personal endeavor, a well-thought-out strategy is your roadmap to achievement.

4.      Surveillance and Information Gathering:

 “The Art of War” underscores the significance of intelligence and information gathering. In today’s information age, staying informed is more accessible than ever. Whether you’re making decisions in your personal life or at work, being well-informed provides a distinct advantage.

5.      Adopt the Principle of Deception:

 Sun Tzu emphasizes the use of deception to gain an advantage over opponents. While honesty and integrity are paramount, the art of diplomacy and effective communication often involves strategic presentation. Knowing how to communicate your ideas in a way that best serves your objectives can be a powerful tool in various situations. We are not saying to lie, steal, or cheat, but rather choose your words. Don’t talk just to talk, don’t give out unnecessary information, you can have conversations with competitors and might even be friendly with them (which is a great thing). All I’m saying is to give them only enough information to keep the guessing, is your business successful, do you have new products coming out, what are you planning, what are you releasing, what are you working on, your competitors may be asking these questions and if you don’t have the authority to divulge that information then you shouldn’t. On the other hand, as a business owner, you may want to keep information like this away from your competitors. Remember they have a business too and they want to succeed, so they need to know key things about your business to stay ahead of their competition, which is you.

6.       Leadership and Teamwork:

 Effective leadership is a recurring theme in “The Art of War.” Whether you’re leading a team at work, managing a household, or collaborating on a project, understanding how to motivate and guide others is crucial for success. You need to be willing to do the task you’re asking others to do, when they see you’re willing to put in the work with them, their willing to give the project or task everything they have.

“The Art of War” is more than a military strategy manual; its principles have enduring relevance in our daily lives. By incorporating these timeless teachings, we can navigate life’s challenges with strategic finesse, fostering personal growth, professional success, and harmonious relationships. Sun Tzu’s wisdom serves as a reminder that the art of living is, indeed, a strategic endeavor. Don’t give up just because a task or project is hard, you need to push forward, adapt, and overcome.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Strategic Wisdom: Applying the Art of War in Your Workplace

In the modern world of business, where competition is fierce and success depends on strategic thinking, the age-old wisdom of Sun Tzu’s “The Art of War” can provide valuable insights believe it or not. Originally written as a guide to military strategy, this ancient Chinese text offers timeless principles that can be adapted to various aspects of life, including the contemporary workplace. Let’s explore how you can leverage the teachings of “The Art of War” to enhance your professional prowess and navigate the challenges of the corporate battlefield.

1.      Know Yourself and Your Colleagues:

Sun Tzu emphasized the importance of self-awareness and understanding the strengths and weaknesses of your adversaries. In the workplace, this translates to recognizing your own skills, limitations, and goals, as well as those of your colleagues. By identifying areas for improvement and acknowledging your team’s capabilities, you can create a strategy that capitalizes on strengths and mitigates weaknesses.

2.      Strategy and Planning:

“The Art of War” underscores the significance of careful planning and strategic thinking. Similarly, in a professional setting, success often hinges on the ability to plan effectively. Develop a clear vision for your projects, anticipate potential challenges, and formulate contingency plans (just don’t get bogged down by trying to plan for every contingency, believe it or not you cannot plan for everything, and you will waste valuable time). By doing so, you position yourself to make informed decisions and adapt to challenging circumstances.

3.      Adaptability:

Sun Tzu’s teachings highlight the importance of adaptability in the face of evolving circumstances. In the workplace, being flexible and responsive to changes can be a key differentiator. Embrace a mindset of continuous improvement, be open to feedback whether its positive or negative, and adjust your strategies as needed. This flexibility will make you more resilient and better equipped to navigate the dynamic nature of modern business.

4.      Use of Information:

“The Art of War” places great emphasis on the effective use of information. In the workplace, staying well-informed about industry trends, market conditions, and the action of competitors is crucial. Regularly analyze data and gather intelligence to make informed decisions. This proactive approach ensures that you are not caught off guard and can seize opportunities as they arise.

5.      Team Collaboration:

Sun Tzu stressed the importance of unity and collaboration in achieving strategic objectives. Similarly, in the workplace, fostering a collaborative environment is essential for success. Build strong, cohesive teams that can work together harmoniously towards common goals. Encourage open communication and leverage the diverse skills and perspectives within your team to maximize effectiveness.

6.      Economic Use of Resources:

Efficient resource management is a fundamental principle in “The Art of War.” Apply this wisdom to your workplace by optimizing the use of time, talent, and resources. Prioritize tasks, delegate responsibility effectively, and ensure that every team member’s skills are utilized to their full potential. This not only enhances productivity but also contributes to a more harmonious and efficient work environment.

“The Art of War” may be ancient, but its principles remain relevant in the contemporary workplace. By incorporating strategic thinking, adaptability, and effective leadership, you can apply the wisdom of Sun Tzu to enhance your professional success. In the corporate battlefield, the art of war becomes the art of strategic excellence, guiding you towards victory in the challenges you face.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Securing the Flock: Applying the Art of War Principles to Church Security

In the modern world, ensuring the safety and security of the places we choose to worship has become a pressing concern. Churches, like any other institution, are not immune to potential threats. While the primary focus of a church is spiritual growth, guidance and community building, it’s essential to recognize the importance of implementing effective security measures. I recently reread the book “The Art of War” by Sun Tzu, and I realized his teachings could be valuable for many different aspects of our lives. Drawing inspiration from the timeless wisdom of Sun Tzu’s “The Art of War,” we can find valuable insights that can be applied to enhance church security strategies.

1.      Know Your Enemy and Know Yourself:

Sun Tzu’s first principle emphasizes the importance of understanding both your strengths and weaknesses as well as those of your potential adversaries. In the context of church security, this means conducting a thorough risk assessment. Identify potential threats, vulnerabilities, and the unique characteristics of your church community. Understanding the environment in which your church operates is crucial for developing a comprehensive security plan.

2.      Appear Weak When You Are Strong:

This principle suggests that displaying strength when necessary and appearing weak when required can be a strategic advantage. In terms of church security, this could mean not publicizing all security measures to maintain an element of surprise for potential threats. While having visible security measures is important, some aspects of your security plan may be more effective when kept discreet.

3.      All Warfare Is Based on Deception:

Sun Tzu’s emphasis on deception can be applied to church security by creating an environment that discourages potential threats. This involves implementing measures that may not be immediately apparent to the casual observer. For example, having plain-clothes security personnel, utilizing surveillance technology discreetly, and regularly changing security protocols can keep potential adversaries guessing.

4.      The Supreme Art of War Is to Subdue the Enemy Without Fighting:

This principle underscores the importance of preventing conflicts whenever possible. In the context of church security, it means establishing a visible but non-confrontational presence. This can include well-trained greeters and ushers who are also security-aware, effectively managing crowd flow, and employing conflict resolution strategies to de-escalate potential issues before they escalate.

5.      Engage People’s Minds:

Sun Tzu stresses the importance of understanding the psychological aspects of conflict. In church security, this involves educating the congregation about security measures, conducting regular drills, and promoting a culture of awareness. Encourage members to report suspicious activity and provide them with the tools to contribute to the overall security of the church and surrounding community.

6.      Opportunities Multiply as They Are Seized:

This principle emphasizes the importance of seizing the right opportunities at the right time. in church security, it means regularly reassessing and updating security protocols to adapt to evolving threats. Embrace technological advancements, stay informed about current security trends, and be proactive in implementing improvements to stay ahead of potential risks.

The timeless principles of Sun Tzu’s “The Art of War” offer valuable insights that an be applied to enhance church security. By understanding potential threat, employing strategic measures, and fostering a security-aware culture within the church community, it’s possible to create an environment that not only ensures the safety of congregants but also upholds the core values of faith, community, fellowship, grace, and love. Balancing the spiritual mission with the practical need for security, churches can thrive as sanctuaries of peace and worship in an ever-changing world.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Pastor Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Protecting the Flock: The Crucial Role of Crisis Intervention in Church Security

In an era marked by unpredictability and uncertainty, the need for comprehensive security measures within places of worship has become increasingly apparent. Church communities, like any other gathering, can be vulnerable to various crises, ranging from medical emergencies to more serious threats. To safeguard congregants and ensure a sense of safety within your sacred space, understanding and implementing crisis intervention strategies are of paramount importance.

The Nature of Church Security:

Churches are meant to be sanctuaries where people gather for learning God’s word, worship, reflection, and community. However, the unfortunate reality is that these places are not immune to crisis. From medical emergencies and natural disasters to potential security threats, churches must be prepared to respond swiftly and effectively to protect their members.

Importance of Crisis Intervention Training:

Timely Response to Medical Emergencies: Churches often host a diverse demographic, including elderly members and young children, making medical emergencies a real possibility. Crisis intervention training equips church security teams with the knowledge and skills to respond promptly to situations like heart attacks, seizures, or other health-related issues. Immediate action can be the difference between life and death in these scenarios.

1.      Addressing Security Threats:

Unfortunately, churches are not exempt from security threats such as violence, vandalism, or even terrorism. Crisis intervention training teaches security personnel how to identify potential threats, de-escalate tense situations, and coordinate with law enforcement if necessary. A well-prepared security team can help prevent tragedies and protect the congregation from harm.

2.      Maintaining Order During Natural Disasters:

Natural disasters, such as earthquakes, floods, or fires, can pose a significant threat to churchgoers, crisis intervention training ensures that security teams can effectively manage evacuation procedures, provide first aid when needed, and coordinate with emergency services to mitigate the impact of these disasters.

3.      Supporting Emotional Well-Being:

Crisis intervention is not limited to physical threats; it also addresses the emotional and psychological impact of crisis. Church security teams trained in crisis intervention can offer support to individuals experiencing trauma or emotional distress, ensuring that the aftermath of a crisis is handled with care and compassion.

4.      Enhancing Community Resilience:

By investing in crisis intervention training, churches contribute to building a resilient and prepared community. When the congregation feels confident that their safety is a priority, a sense of trust and unity is fostered. This, in turn, strengthens the church community and its ability to weather unexpected challenges.

In an era where safety concerns are on the rise the importance of crisis intervention training for church security cannot be overstated. By equipping security teams with the necessary skills to respond to medical emergencies, security threats, and natural disasters, churches can create and environment where congregants feel safe, supported, and connected. Ultimately, crisis intervention is not just about reacting to emergencies but is a proactive approach to ensuring the well-being of the church community, fostering resilience, and preserving the sacred nature of your worship space.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Pastor Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Defending the Flock: Exploring the Biblical Foundation of Self-Defense as laid out in Luke 22:35-38

First let’s look at Luke 22:35-38 it says:

35 And He said to them, “When I sent you without money bag, knapsack, and sandals, did you lack anything?”

So they said, “Nothing.”

36 Then He said to them, “But now, he who has a money bag, let him take it, and likewise a knapsack; and he who has no sword, let him sell his garment and buy one. 37 For I say to you that this which is written must still be accomplished in Me: ‘And He was numbered with the transgressors.’ For the things concerning Me have an end.”

38 So they said, “Lord, look, here are two swords.”

And He said to them, “It is enough.”

Our Bibles are timeless sources of guidance for all of us. Our Bibles offer us moral principles and teachings from Christ Himself. What God teaches us through His actions and the actions of His Son are beliefs and behaviors we base our lives around and strive to follow. When it comes to the concept of self-defense, some people have questioned its alignment with our Christian values. These individuals have even gone so far as to ask me “how can I be a Christian and not feel morally convicted teaching and using self-defense techniques”. I have been told I lack faith in God because I don’t depend on Him to protect me. I simply say, “if we don’t need to protect ourselves because God will protect us, then we don’t need to evangelize because God will save everyone”. Let’s take a closer look at Luke 22:35-38 and get some insight into the importance of self-defense in certain circumstances.

Examining the Passage:

1.      Practical Preparedness: In this passage, Jesus emphasizes the importance of practical preparedness. By instructing His disciples to carry a moneybag, knapsack, and even a sword, He acknowledges the need for self-reliance in certain situations. This does not imply a rejection of faith but rather a recognition of the realities of the world.

2.      Fulfillment of Scripture: Jesus mentions that the disciples carrying swords fulfills the scripture that speaks of Him being “numbered with the transgressors.” This indicates that there are times when followers of Christ may find themselves in challenging situations where self-defense becomes a necessity.

3.      Balancing Faith and Practicality: The passage suggests a balance between faith and practicality. While trust in God is paramount, it doesn’t negate the responsibility to take reasonable steps to ensure one’s safety. Owning a sword, in the context, symbolizes the need for believers to be prepared for the challenges that may come their way.

4.      Self-Defense as Stewardship: As Christians we are called to be good stewards of our lives and the resources entrusted to us. Taking measures to protect oneself, their families, or people in their care, can be viewed as an aspect of responsible stewardship. By using the tools available for self-defense (hands, feet, weapons), believers acknowledge the value of their own lives and the responsibilities attached to them.

Luke 22:35-38 provides a thought-provoking perspective on the concept of self-defense in our Christian faith. While the passage does not explicitly endorse violence, it does acknowledge the practical need for us as believers to take measures to protect ourselves when faced with danger. As with many Biblical teachings, interpretation is key, and we as believers must approach the issue of self-defense with discernment, prayer, and a deep understanding of the broader Biblical principles of love, justice, and stewardship. In doing so, I believe we can strive to strike a balance between faith and practicality in navigating the challenges of the world. You are justified in protecting yourself, your family, those in your care, and those weaker than you who cannot protect themselves.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Identifying Public Threats: A Guide to Vigilance and Safety

In an increasingly interconnected world, being aware of potential public threats is crucial for maintaining safety and security. Whether it’s a crowded city street, a public event, or a busy transportation hub, recognizing signs of potential danger can help individuals and communities stay vigilant. When you know what to look for you are one step ahead of the person looking to cause harm and or chaos. In this blog we’ll explore key strategies and tips on how to spot a public threat.

1.      Be Observant:

The first and foremost step in identifying public threats is to be observant of your surroundings (situational awareness). Pay attention to the people, the environment, and any unusual activities. If you have read my previous blogs, then you know about situational awareness and how crucial it is. Trust your instincts; if something feels off, it’s worth investigation further.

2.      Unattended Items:

One common indicator of a potential threat is unattended items in public spaces. Be wary of abandoned bags, backpacks, or packages. If you notice something suspicious, report it to the authorities immediately. Don’t worry about feeling stupid or what other people might think, it’s always better to be safe than sorry.

3.      Behavioral Cues:

Pay attention to the behavior of individuals around you. Look for signs of nervousness, agitation, or erratic movements. Be cautious of people who appear to be studying a location, taking photographs in a way that seems unusual, or exhibiting behaviors that deviate from the norm. In the aftermath of mass shootings or even bombings, when interviewed, people who were right bgy the shooter, explosive device, (and survived) remembered something seemed off about someone or something.

4.      Inconsistencies in Dress or Appearance:

While it’s important not to judge based on appearances alone, certain inconsistencies in dress or appearance may raise concerns. Look for individuals who may be overdressed for the weather, wearing bulky clothing that seems out of place (like a winter jacket in the middle of July) or refusing to make eye contact.

5.      Overly Protective or Defensive Behavior:

Individuals exhibiting overly protective or defensive behavior in public spaces may be cause for concern. This includes those who are unusually focused on securing a specific area or seem to be guarding an object or location. Trust your instincts and report such behavior to authorities again don’t worry about what people may think or may say, it’s always better to be safe than sorry.

6.      Communication Signs:

Pay attention to verbal and non-verbal communication. Individuals engaged in suspicious activities may use coded language, speak in hushed tones, or avoid eye contact. Be alert to signs of communication that don’t align with the context of the situation. I would also like to point out that people who are deaf or hard of hearing use sign language to communicate. You have to keep this in mind and watch the individuals communicating. If you can’t speak sign language at least know what it looks like to you don’t confuse a simple conversation with a threat of ill intentions.

7.      Surveillance Awareness:

Be mindful of individuals who appear to be conducting surveillance. This could involve prolonged or repeated observation of a location, mapping out escape routes, or seemingly documenting security measures. If you notice such activities, report them promptly. Watch people taking photos of the same background but from different angles. Typically, tourists will take a photo or two from one location not several. Think of it this way: if you’re at the Capitol building with your family you will probably take a photo of the building from the front and a couple inside. You would not take fifteen photos of the front, sides, and back of the building, all form different angles maybe not even focusing on any one person.

8.      Crowd Dynamics:

Understanding the dynamics of crowds is essential. Be aware of sudden shifts in crowd behavior, such as panic, a rapid dispersal, or an unusual convergence towards a specific point. These can be indicators of a potential threat or emergency situation. Observation and situational awareness go hand in hand. If you haven’t read our previous blog on situational awareness I suggest you go there next and read them, they will help you better understand how to read people, the room, and be better prepared.

Remain vigilant and knowing how to spot potential public threats is everyone’s responsibility. By staying observant, trusting your instincts, and reporting suspicious activities promptly, you contribute to the overall safety and security of your community. Remember, awareness is a powerful tool in preventing and mitigating potential threats, and it starts with each individual being proactive and informed.

 Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Train How You Fight: Securing Sacred Spaces: The Crucial Role of Training for Church Security

Places of worship, including churches, have historically been regarded as sanctuaries, providing solace and spiritual refuge. However, in today’s unpredictable world, the need for comprehensive security measures in churches has become increasingly evident. While technological advancements offer various security solutions, the importance of training in preparing for potential threats cannot be overstated. This blog delves into the significance of training in shaping an effective and vigilant church security team.

The Changing Landscape of Church Security:

Gone are the days when church security merely involved locking doors after services. The evolving security landscape demands a proactive and well-prepared approach. Training plays a pivotal role in adapting to these changes and ensuring the safety of congregants and church staff.

1.      Prevention Through Preparedness: Training instills a sense of preparedness among security teams. It goes beyond the theoretical understanding of potential threats and equips individuals with practical skills to identify and prevent security breaches. From recognizing suspicious behavior to implementing evacuation procedures, a well-trained security team can significantly reduce the risk of incidents. Make sure your team practices procedures and protocols at least once a month. This way your team is prepared to act and not react to an emergency.

2.      Crisis Response: In the unfortunate event of an emergency, a trained security team can make all the difference. Whether it’s a medical emergency, natural disaster, or an active threat, effective crisis response hinges on well-practiced protocols. Training helps church security teams develop the muscle memory necessary to act swiftly and decisively in high-stress situations. Your security team needs to have one or members certified in CPR as well as First Aid. This training helps your church be prepared for any emergency.

3.      Communication and Coordination: Effective communication is paramount in any security operation. Training facilitates the development of clear communication channels among team members and with other relevant authorities. This ensures that information flows seamlessly during critical moments, enabling a coordinated response that minimizes confusion and maximizes effectiveness. A good way to communicate is with radios. At Goldbar Security we can help you learn how to use radios to your advantage.

4.      Cultural Sensitivity and Community Relations: Churches are unique spaces with diverse congregations. Training should not only focus on physical security but also on understanding the cultural sensitivities of the community. A well-trained security team respects the sanctity of the church environment while fostering positive relations with congregants. Just because you may not agree with someone’s lifestyle or pollical views does mean you discount them as a person. After all Jesus sought out people some of us might be ashamed to be seen with today. We need to love everyone in our church and be willing to lay down our lives for them like Jesus Christ did for all of us.

5.      Adapting to Technological Advances: Technology is an integral part of modern security solutions. Training ensures that security teams are proficient in the use of surveillance systems, access control, and other technological tools. Additionally, it helps them stay updated on emerging security technologies, allowing churches to maintain a proactive stance against potential threats. If your church does not have a budget for cameras, radios, ect. that’s not a problem. You have security staff that have eyes, ears, and a gut feeling they can use to make sure the building and congregants are safe.

In an era where the security landscape is ever evolving, the importance of training for church security cannot be overstated. A well-trained security team not only safeguards the physical well-being of the congregation but also upholds the spiritual and emotional sanctity of the church. By investing in comprehensive training programs like the ones we offer at Goldbar Defense, churches can create a secure environment that allows worshippers to focus on their faith without fear, fostering a sense of community and togetherness. In essence, training how you’re going to fight is not just a strategy; it’s a commitment to ensuring the safety and well-being of all who seek solace within the walls of your church.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Train How You Fight: The Crucial Role of Realistic Training in Self-Defense

In the realm of self-defense, the age-old adage “taking how you fight” holds profound significance. It goes beyond mere physical preparation; it encompasses a mindset that acknowledges the unpredictable nature of real-life threats. In this blog, we delve into the importance of realistic training for self-defense and how adopting this approach can be a game-changer in life-threatening situations.

Understanding the Need for Realism:

1.      Simulating Real-World Scenarios: Self-defense situations are seldom textbook scenarios. They can unfold in various ways in various environments and under unpredictable circumstances. Realistic training involves simulation of these scenarios to the best of your ability, incorporating elements such as surprise attacks, multiple assailants, and confined spaces, and weapons that may be used as well like knife, gun, bat, tire iron. While you cannot prepare for every situation and every scenario, training this way ensures that individuals are better prepared to respond effectively when faced with a genuine threat.

2.      Stress Inoculation: The human body’s response to stress is a crucial factor in self-defense. Realistic training exposes individuals to controlled stressors, mimicking the physiological and psychological reactions experienced during an actual confrontation. This stress inoculation helps build mental resilience, allowing individuals to think clearly and act decisively under pressure. If you train with someone pointing a firearm, knife, club, or other weapon at you or using it on you, then you are better prepared and have a better understanding of how you will react.

3.      Muscle Memory and Reflex Development: Repetition is key to developing muscle memory and reflexes. Training how you fight reinforces the specific movements and techniques required in self-defense situations. This muscle memory can be a lifesaver when fine motor skills are compromised under stress, as it enables individuals to execute defensive actions instinctively. Get used to talking with your hands or having your hand up above your waist. This way you’re ready to respond if need be. If you keep your hands in your pockets or by your waist, then your reaction time is cut down and you are not prepared to defend yourself.

4.      Adapting to the Unpredictable: No two self-defense situations are identical. Realistic training emphasizes adaptability by presenting diverse challenges. Whether it’s defending against armed attackers or navigating unfamiliar terrain, individuals trained in a realistic setting are better equipped to assess and respond to the unique demands of each situation. A good training scenario might be as follows: have your attacker drop their weapon and someone else who is playing a bystander pick up the weapon. What are you going to do? What is they bystander going to do? Should you have gone for the weapon? Realistically you need to go for the weapon and get control of it. If you are not training this way, then you need to start. Start running all kinds of scenarios and remember if you have to defend yourself against a knife you are going to get cut. I will repeat that YOU WILL GET CUT! Once you have this mindset and practice this (don’t really cut yourself) you will be better prepared and equipped to defend yourself and the ones you love. Keep this in mind if you have to defend yourself from someone with a firearm. The firearm will go off maybe a couple times. You need to be prepared for the noise. Now do not train with live rounds in a firearm but maybe train with a loud cap gun to get used to the noise. After that move onto an airsoft gun so you know if you are getting hit. I want you to train as realistic as possible while maintaining a safe environment.

The Role of Mental Preparedness:

1.      Crisis Decision-Making: Self-defense often demands rapid decision-making under duress. Realistic training hones an individual’s ability to assess threats, evaluate options, and make split-second decisions. This mental preparedness is as crucial as physical skills when it comes to effective self-defense. By training in the realistic methods above you will be able to make split second decisions much better than someone who hasn’t trained in real-world scenarios.

2.      Confidence and Composure: Realistic training instills a sense of confidence derived from facing and overcoming simulated challenges. This confidence is not brash or overconfident but is grounded in the knowledge that one has practiced and prepared for a variety of situations. Maintaining composure under stress is a valuable asset in self-defense. Think of airplane pilots, they have to train for all kinds of scenarios, and they can never train for them all. Like Captain Chelsey Burnett “Sully” Sullenberger the III. Sully is a retired American fighter pilot, and airline pilot who is best known for his actions in 2009 while flying US Airways. His flight 1549 had both engines disabled by a bird strike and he had to ditch the plane in the Hudson River. All 155 people on board the plane survived because of his actions. Now Sully did not train for this exact incident but because he had trained on similar incidents, he knew exactly what to do. Sully was able to stay calm, cool, and collected under pressure. You need to make sure you are training properly so you can keep your composure and have confidence under pressure.

 In the realm of self-defense, the mantra “train how you fight” is a guiding principle that extends far beyond the training mat. It’s a mindset that cultivates a holistic approach to personal safety-one that encompasses physical, mental, and emotional preparation. Realistic training is an investment in one’s ability to navigate the unexpected and emerge from a threat with resilience and, ultimately, survival. Whether through martial arts, scenario-based drills, and other training methodologies, the path to effective self-defense begins with a commitment to train authentically and to be ready for whatever challenges may arise. At Goldbar Defense we take pride in training our students in real-world scenarios. While we cannot train you for every situation, we will give you the training you need to handle every situation.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Train How You Fight: The Key to Success in Any Endeavor

In the area of life, whether it be in sprots, business, or personal challenges, the adage “train how you fight” holds profound significance. This principle emphasizes the importance of preparing oneself for the actual circumstances and conditions one is likely to encounter. This concept is deeply ingrained in military training, martial arts, and mma, but extends its relevance to various aspects of life. In this blog, we will explore the significance of training how you fight and how this approach can lead to success and resilience in the face of adversity.

Understanding the Concept:

Training how you fight involves simulating real-world scenarios during your preparation. It’s about creating an environment that closely mimics the challenges, pressures, and conditions you expect to encounter when the stakes are high. This philosophy is not exclusive to physical combat but is equally applicable in fields such as business, sports, and personal development.

1.      Improved Performance Under Pressure:

·         When you train under conditions that replicate the challenges you’ll face, you build familiarity and resilience. This familiarity can help mitigate the anxiety associated with high-pressure situations.

·         Athletes often practice specific game scenarios, business professionals simulate high-stakes presentations, and soldiers undergo realistic training exercises. This prepares them to perform optimally when the stakes are highest.

2.      Adaptability and Problem-Solving:

·         Training how you fight cultivates adaptability and sharpens problem-solving skills. By encountering and overcoming obstacles in a controlled environment, individuals develop the ability to think on their feet and make effective decisions under pressure.

·         Business leaders, for example, benefit from scenario planning and simulations that replicate market fluctuations or unexpected challenges. This allows them to refine their strategies and responses before facing real-world uncertainties.

3.      Building Muscle Memory:

·         Physical training plays a significant role in this concept. Athletes, soldiers, and performers engage in repetitive, deliberate practice to build muscle memory. When faced with a high-stress situation, this muscle memory kicks in, enabling more automatic and efficient responses.

·         For instance, a martial artist trains specific movement repeatedly, making these actions second nature, in a real fight, this muscle memory can be the difference between success and failure.

4.      Enhanced Mental Toughness:

·         Training under challenging conditions not only hones physical skills but also strengthens mental resilience. Individuals learn to cope with stress, setbacks, and adversity, fostering a mindset of perseverance.

·         Business professionals who have faced simulated crises during training are better equipped to handle unexpected challenges. This mental toughness is a crucial asset in navigating the uncertainties of any endeavor.

In the journey towards success, whether on the battlefield of sports, business, or personal growth, the principle of training how you fight emerges as a guiding philosophy. By immersing oneself in realistic scenarios during preparation, individuals can cultivate the skills, mindset, and resilience needed to thrive in the face of adversity. The disciplined application of this principle serves as a blueprint for success, allowing individuals to confront challenges with confidence, adaptability, and a strategic mindset. So. The next time you embark on a new challenge, remember train how you fight, and you’ll be better prepared to emerge victorious.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

The Crucial Distinction: Cover vs. Concealment in Self-Defense

In a world where personal safety is a growing concern, individuals must equip themselves with the knowledge and skills necessary for self-defense. One often overlooked aspect of this preparation is understanding the critical difference between cover and concealment, between Hollywood and reality. While these terms may seem synonymous at first glance, they play distinct roles in enhancing one’s ability to survive a potentially life-threatening situation. In the blog, we will delve into the importance of knowing the difference between cover and concealment and how this knowledge can be a game-changer in self-defense scenarios.

1.      Defining Cover and Concealment:

·         Cover: In self-defense terminology, cover refers to any object or structure that provides protection from bullets, projectiles, or other potential threats. Examples include concrete walls, steel barriers, and solid wood or metal furniture and doors that are a couple inches thick.

·         Concealment: Concealment, on the other hand, refers to an object or structure that hides you from an assailant’s view but may not necessarily offer protection from gunfire or other threats. Examples include curtains, bushes, or smoke.

2.      The Importance of Kowing the Difference:

·         Enhanced Survival Odds: Understanding the distinction between cover and concealment is crucial for increasing your chances of survival in a self-defense scenario. Taking cover behind a solid barrier significantly reduces the risk of being hit by bullets or projectiles.

·         Strategic Decision-Making: In the heat of a crisis, quick and informed decisions can make all the difference, recognizing whether a given environment provides cover or just concealment allows you to make strategic choices about where to position yourself for maximum safety.

·         Effective Use of Resources: In self-defense situations, resources are often limited knowing the difference between cover and concealment enables you to effectively use your surrounding to your advantage, utilizing true protection when available and using concealment for evasion.

3.      Examples in Real-Life Scenarios:

·         Home Invasion: If faced with a home invasion, understanding which areas in your home offer cover (such as a reinforced door or a solid piece of furniture) can give you a significant advantage in protecting yourself and your loved ones.

·         Steet Encounter: In a street encounter where finding cover might be challenging, knowing how to use concealment effectively (such as hiding behind a car, dumpster, large tree, or bushes) can help you avoid detection and create an opportunity for escape.

4.      Training for Cover and Concealment:

·         Simulated Scenarios: Self-defense training should incorporate simulated scenarios that emphasize the use of cover and concealment. This hands-on experience allows individuals to develop the necessary instincts for making split-second decisions in high-stress situations.

·         Firearm Training: For those who choose to carry a firearm for self-defense, understanding the ballistic capabilities of different objects as cover is essential. For example, a car door is not going to act as cover. Hollywood may have law enforcement in movies and on T.V. use their vehicle doors for cover but in the real world they will not stop bullets. Training on how to use cover effectively can be a key component of firearm instruction.

In the realm of self-defense, knowledge is power, and understanding the difference between cover and concealment is a prime example of this principle. Equipping oneself with this crucial information can be the determining factor in surviving a life-threatening situation. Whether at home, on the street, or in a public space, individuals who prioritize this aspect of self-defense training enhance the3ir ability to make informed decisions and increase their overall safety. In the complex landscape of personal security, knowing where to find cover and how to use concealment wisely can make all the difference between vulnerability and empowerment.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

The Art of De-Escalation: Navigating Everyday Challenges with Grace

In the business of our everyday lives, conflicts and tensions are inevitable. Whether it’s a disagreement at work, a misunderstanding with a friend, or a heated exchange with a family member, the ability to de-escalate a situation is a valuable skill that can foster better relationships and create a more harmonious environment. In the blog, we will explore the significance of de-escalation techniques and how incorporating them into our everyday lives can lead to more positive outcomes in various situations and scenarios.

Understanding De-Escalation:

De-escalation is the process of calming or diffusing a potentially volatile situation. It involves using communication, empathy, and active listening to prevent conflicts from escalating further. De-escalation techniques are not only crucial in high-stakes environments, such as law enforcement or crisis intervention, but they also play a vital role in our everyday interactions.

Importance of De-Escalation in Everyday Life:

1.      Improved Communication: De-escalation techniques emphasize effective communication. By actively listening to others, acknowledging their feelings, and expressing ourselves clearly, we can create an atmosphere conducive to understating and resolution. This leads to better relationships and fewer misunderstandings.

2.      Conflict Resolution: Conflicts are a natural part of human interaction. De-escalation techniques provide a roadmap for resolving conflicts peacefully. Instead of escalating a disagreement, individuals can work together to find common ground and reach a compromise that satisfies both parties.

3.      Stress Reduction: Tensions and conflicts contribute to stress, affecting both our mental and physical well-being. Learning to de-escalate situations helps to reduce stress levels by preventing minor issues form snowballing into major problems. This, in turn, promotes a healthier and more positive lifestyle.

4.      Building Empathy: De-escalation involves putting oneself in the shoes of others to understand their perspectives and emotions. This process fosters empathy, creating a more compassionate and understanding community. When people feel heard and understood, they are more likely to cooperate and find common ground.

5.      Promoting a Positive Environment: Whether at home, work, or in social settings, a positive and harmonious environment is conducive to productivity, creativity, and overall well-being. De-escalation techniques contribute to creating such an environment by preventing conflicts from disrupting the peace and harmony of a space.

Practice De-Escalation Techniques:

 1.      Active Listening: Paying full attention to what others are saying, without interrupting, demonstrates respect and understanding. Reflecting back on what you’ve heard shows that you value the other person’s perspective.

2.      Stay Calm: Maintaining your composure in a tense situation is crucial. Your calm demeanor can have a calming effect on others, making it easier to find common ground.

3.      Use “I” Statements: When expressing your feeling or concerns, use “I” statements to avoid sounding accusatory. For example, say “I feel frustrated when…” Instead of “You always…”

4.      Empathize: Try to understand the emotions and perspectives of others. Expressing empathy can defuse tension and create a more cooperative atmosphere.

5.      Take a Break: If a situation is escalating and emotions are running high, suggest taking a break to cool off. This can prevent things from spiraling out of control and allow everyone involved to approach the issue with a clearer mindset.

Incorporating de-escalation techniques into our daily lives is a powerful way to foster positive relationships, enhance communication, and create a more harmonious environment. By valuing empathy, active listening, and maintaining composure, we can navigate the inevitable conflicts and challenges with grace, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

The Vital Role of De-Escalation Techniques in Church Security

In recent years, the importance of security in places of worship has become increasingly evident. Churches, once considered sanctuaries of peace, are not immune to the potential threats that can arise in today’s unpredictable world. While it is crucial to implement physical security measures, an often overlooked yet equally essential aspect of church security is the use of de-escalation techniques. These methods focus on diffusing tense situations and promoting peaceful resolutions, aligning seamlessly with the principles of compassion, and understanding that lie at the core of religious teachings.

Understanding De-Escalation:

De-escalation is a set of communication strategies designed to prevent or resolve conflicts before they escalate into violence in the context of church security, these techniques serve as a bridge between maintaining a welcoming atmosphere and ensuring the safety of congregants and staff. De-escalation involves active listening, empathy, and effective communication to address potentially volatile situations calmly.

Key De-Escalation Techniques:

1.      Active Listening: Active Listening is a fundamental de-escalation technique. It involves giving full attention to what the other person is saying, without interruption or judgement. In a church setting, security personnel can benefit from actively listening to congregants expressing concerns or grievances, allowing them to feel heard and acknowledged.

2.      Empathy: Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another. When dealing with individuals in distress, expressing empathy can be a powerful de-escalation tool. Church security personnel trained in empathy can create a connection with those experiencing emotional turmoil, helping to defuse potential conflicts.

3.      Effective Communication: Clear and concise communication is essential in preventing misunderstandings that could lead to conflict. Church security teams should be trained to communicate calmly and assertively, providing clear instructions and information to those involved in a situation.

4.      Crisis Intervention Training: Specialized training in crisis intervention equips security personnel with the skills needed to handle high-stress situations. This training covers de-escalation techniques, rusk assessment, and communication strategies specific to diffusing conflicts within a church environment.

Importance in Church Security:

1.      Preserving the Sanctity of Worship: Implementing de-escalation techniques in church security is crucial for preserving the sanctity of worship. By addressing conflicts peacefully, the focus can remain on spiritual growth and community building rather than disruptions that may arise from misunderstandings.

2.      Promoting a Safe Environment: De-escalation techniques contribute to creating a safe and secure environment within the church. By preventing conflicts from escalating into violence, these methods help maintain a sense of security for congregants, fostering a positive and welcoming atmosphere.

3.      Reflecting Religious Principles: Christianity emphasizes values of compassion, forgiveness, grace, love, and understanding. Integrating de-escalation techniques into church security aligns with these principles, reinforcing the teachings of Jesus Christ about love, grace, compassion, forgiveness, and harmony that form the foundation of our faith.

In an era where security concerns are increasingly prevalent, the role of de-escalation techniques in church security cannot be overstated. By prioritizing communication, empathy, and active listening, churches can strike a balance between maintaining a welcoming atmosphere and ensuring the safety of their congregants. As guardians of both physical and spiritual well-being, church security personnel play a crucial role in upholding the sanctity of worship spaces while navigating the challenges of the modern world.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

The Everyday Comfort: Embracing the Importance of Your EDC Essentials

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, the concept of Everyday Carry (EDC) has gained significant popularity. EDC refers to the collection of items that you carry with you on a daily basis to navigate the challenges and opportunities life throws your way. Now this blog is not going to get into what items are best for your EDC, or which ones we recommend you carry. What you choose to carry is up to you, after all you know what you are comfortable carrying and what works for you. While the practicality of these items is evident, there is a deeper layer to the EDC philosophy-One That revolves around the importance of being comfortable with your essentials. Let’s explore why finding comfort in your EDC items goes beyond mere convenience.

1.      Efficiency in Daily Tasks:

Comfort with your EDC items translates to efficiency in daily tasks. When your tools and accessories are familiar and well-suited to your needs, you can navigate your day seamlessly. Whether it’s a multitool that comes in handy for unexpected challenges or a well-organized wallet that streamlines your financial transactions, the comfort derived from these items enhances your overall productivity.

·         Where do you work, what do you do?

·         What do you need to complete your daily tasks?

·         If an emergency were to happen are you prepared?

·         Your EDC choices should help you in your daily tasks and in case of an emergency.

2.      Security and Preparedness:

The psychological comfort derived from being prepared is immeasurable. Knowing that you have the right tools in your pocket, like a reliable flashlight or a pocketknife, can instill a sense of security. This preparedness extends beyond physical tools; it also involves the peace of mind that comes with knowing you are equipped to handle unforeseen situations, promoting a confident and proactive mindset. You don’t want a utility belt full of stuff weighing you down just in case something happens. You need to choose what you are going to carry, some poelple carry five items while others carry seven or eight. It depends on where you work, where you may travel, what you may encounter, what you are trained to do in an emergency (CPR, First Aid), and what you feel comfortable doing. Everyday items you may be but not limited to:

·         Gun

·         Knife

·         Flashlight

·         Pepper spray

·         Tactical Pen

·         Self-Defense Key Chain

·         Whistle

·         Handcuffs or Zip Ties

·         Tourniquet

·         Phone

3.      Personalization and Identity:

Your EDC items are an extension of yourself. The act of curating and personalizing your everyday carry allows you to express your personality and values. It becomes a reflection of who you are and what you find important. This personalization fosters a sense of identity and connection with your belongings, making them more than just tools-they become companions on your life’s journey. Don’t carry items because you think they look cool, or a friend/family member suggested them. Make sure you are familiar with, and comfortable using every item you decide to carry. I’m not going to carry a tourniquet unless I know how to use one and I’m comfortable using it.

4.      Adaptability to Changing Environments:

Life is dynamic, and so are the environments we navigate. Being comfortable with your EDC items means they are versatile and adaptable to various situations. Whether you’re in the office, outdoors, or traveling, having a set of items that can seamlessly transition between environments ensures that you are always well-equipped, fostering a sense of ease and flexibility. You need to be able to change your EDC depending on what you might do any given day.

·         If I’m going to the courthouse or my kids school for anything and I usually carry a gun, knife, and pepper spray, then I’m not going to take those items into a federal building or school where it’s against the law. I need to adjust my EDC depending on that task. If I’m going to leave items in my car, do I have a way to secure them so someone can’t break into my vehicle and steal them?

·         If I decide to go on a hike my EDC changes a little. I may add or subtract some items. I may want to add a first aid kit. How big is it going to be and where will I carry it. If I’m in bear country, what size bear spray am I going to carry and where will I carry it. I want to make sure my firearm and bear spray are easily accessible.

·         If I’m working security, I need to keep in mind what scenarios I might encounter. This will help me decide what I want to take away from my EDC or add to my EDC. I have worked on, and lead church security teams and I always add handcuffs and zip ties to my EDC on Sundays. Hopefully I never have to restrain someone until the police arrive, but if I need to I am able to do so.

5.      Mindfulness and Intentionality:

The process of selecting and refining your EDC items encourages mindfulness and intentionality. By carefully choosing what you carry, you develop a heightened awareness of your needs and priorities. This intentional approach to your daily essentials can extend to other aspects of your life, promoting a mindful and purposeful mindset in your decision-making process.

In a world that often feels chaotic, unpredictable, and out of our control, finding comfort in the items we carry on a daily basis is a small but powerful way to regain control. Your EDC essentials are not just tools; they are your companions in the journey of life, providing a sense of security, identity, and preparedness. Embrace the importance of being comfortable with your Everyday Carry items, and you’ll find that the benefits extend far beyond mere practicality-they touch the very essence of how you navigate and experience the world.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Before you carry: Considerations for Carrying a Firearm or Any Other Weapon

In a world where personal safety is a paramount concern, the decision to carry a firearm or other weapon is a significant one that requires careful consideration. While the right to bear arms is protected in many places, the responsibility that comes with it cannot be overstated. Before you decide to carry a firearm or another weapon, there are several crucial factors to ponder. This blog explores key considerations that should guide your decision-making process.

1.      Legal Requirements and Regulations:

Before obtaining any weapon, it is imperative to thoroughly research and understand the local, state, and national laws and regulations governing firearm ownership and carry. Different jurisdictions have varying requirements, such as age restrictions, background, checks, and permits. Ignorance of the law is not an excuse, so ensure you are well-informed and compliant with all relevant regulations. Right now, our State of Montana is a Constitutional Carry state meaning you do not need a concealed carry permit to concealed carry. However, if you would like to obtain your Concealed Carry Permit (CCP) Goldbar Defense can help you out with that. While we cannot issue the permit ourselves, we do offer the practical shooting and safety class to help you acquire your CCP.

2.      Training and Education:

Owning a firearm or any other weapon comes with the responsibility of knowing how to use it safely and effectively. Enrolling in a reputable firearms training course like the ones we have at Goldbar Defense is highly recommended. Our courses cover essential topics such as firearm safety, marksmanship, and the legal use of force. Regular practice at a certified shooting range is also crucial to maintain proficiency.

3.      Purpose of Carry:

Consider why you want to carry a firearm or weapon. Is it for personal protection, sport, or both? Understanding your motivation will help guide your choices in terms of the type of weapon, holster, and training you pursue. Your purpose should align with your commitment to safety, responsible ownership, and adherence to the law. Remember just because you choose to carry a weapon does not mean you get an invincibility shield, a fix to someone’s bad attitude. Just because you choose to carry this does not mean you get to go or do things you wouldn’t have done otherwise. Your actions, whether justified or not will have legal ramifications.

4.      Psychological Preparedness:

Carrying a weapon requires a certain level of mental readiness, it is essential to be aware of the potential consequences of using a firearm and to develop a mindset that prioritizes de-escalation and avoidance of conflicts. Seek out resources on situational awareness and conflict resolution to enhance your ability to navigate potentially dangerous situations. At Goldbar Defense we will teach you all about the legalities you may face but we encourage you to have a couple of different sources don’t rely on one.

5.      Holster Selection and Carry Method:

Choosing the right holster and carry method is as important as selecting the weapon itself. The holster should securely hold the firearm, provide quick access, and be comfortable for extended periods. Different carry methods, such as inside-the-waistband (IWB) or outside-the-waistband (OWB), cater to different preferences and body types. Experiment with different options to find what works best for you.

6.      Continued Evaluation and Adaptation:

Once you begin carrying a firearm or weapon, it is crucial to regularly reassess your choices. This includes evaluation of your training regimen, ensuring your equipment is in good condition, and staying informed about any changes in laws or regulations. Regular self-assessment and a commitment to ongoing education contribute to responsible gun ownership.

The decision to carry a firearm or other weapon is a serious one that demands careful consideration and responsibility. Legal compliance, proper training, understanding your motivations, psychological preparedness, holster selection, and continuous evaluation are all vital aspects of responsible firearm ownership. By taking these considerations seriously, you can better ensure the safety of yourself and those around you, fostering a culture of responsible gun ownership.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Empowering Self-Defense: The Crucial Role of Scenario-Based Training

In a world where personal safety is a priority, the need for effective real world self-defense skills cannot be overstated. Traditional self-defense training often focuses on teaching techniques in isolation, but the true test lies in the ability to apply these skills in real-world situations. This is where scenario-based training proves to be invaluable, offering a dynamic and immersive approach that prepares individuals for the unpredictable nature of self-defense scenarios.

Realistic Preparedness

Scenario-based training for self-defense goes beyond the practice of specific moves and techniques. It simulates real-life situations, helping individuals develop the instincts and decision-making skills needed to respond effectively in a crisis. By replicating the chaos and stress of actual encounters, this type of training prepares individuals for the unexpected, fostering a sense of realistic preparedness that can be a game-changer in moments of danger.

Adapting to Various Threats

Self-defense scenarios can vary widely, from verbal confrontations to physical altercations. Scenario-based training exposes individuals to a range of threats and situations, allowing them to adapt their skills accordingly. Whether facing a potential assailant, navigating a crowded space, or dealing with multiple attackers, this training methodology ensures that individuals can adjust their responses to the specific challenges they nay encounter in different scenarios.

Building Confidence Under Pressure

Confidence is a key component of effective self-defense. Scenario-based training provides a safe and controlled environment for individuals to confront and overcome their fears. By repeatedly exposing participants to simulated threats, they become more Confident in their ability to assess situations, make quick decisions, and take appropriate action. This newfound confidence can be a powerful deterrent and may even prevent potential threats from escalating.

Enhanced Situational Awareness

Self-defense is not just about physical techniques; it’s also about being aware of one’s surroundings and potential threats. Scenario-based training emphasizes situational awareness, teaching individuals to stay vigilant and recognize early signs of danger. By honing these observational skills in realistic scenarios, participants develop a heightened sense of awareness (hypervigilance) that can be crucial for avoiding potentially dangerous situations altogether.

Emphasizing Legal and Ethical Considerations

In the heat of a self-defense situation, decisions made under pressure can have legal and ethical ramifications. Scenario-based training provides an opportunity to discuss and practice the legal and ethical aspects of self-defense. Participants learn about the appropriate use of force, understanding when to escalate or de-escalate a situation, and the importance of making split-second decisions that align with the law.

Retaining Muscle Memory

Muscle memory is a critical component of effective self-defense. Scenario-based training allows individuals to practice their skills in a dynamic and realistic setting, reinforcing muscle memory through repetition. This ensures that, in a high-stress situation, individuals can react instinctively and execute self-defense techniques with precision, reducing the risk of fumbling under pressure.

Scenario-based training is a transformative approach to self-defense, offering a holistic and practical method for preparing individuals to navigate the complexities of real-world threats. By emphasizing realistic preparedness, adapting to various threat, building confidence under pressure, enhancing situational awareness, addressing legal and ethical considerations, and reinforcing muscle memory, this training methodology empower individuals to protect themselves with both skill and confidence. As the importance of personal safety continues to be at the forefront of individuals’ concerns, integrating scenario-based training into self-defense programs becomes not just beneficial but essential for creating a safer and more empowered society.

At Goldbar Defense we teach real-world self-defense. Our techniques are not flamboyant, they don’t look pretty, but they work! We focus on self-defense training in real-world scenarios with a single attacker, multiple attackers, attacks with knives, firearms, clubs, bats, ect. From one assailant or multiple. At Goldbar Defense you will be able to defend yourself and those you love from dangerous situations by avoiding them altogether or if the situation escalates then using our self-defense tactics.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC

Mastering the Basics: The Crucial Importance of Dry Fire Drills at Home and the Gun Range

In the world of firearms training, there’s a fundamental principle that stands tall above the rest: practice makes perfect. While live-fire exercises are essential for honing your shooting skills, the often-overlooked dry fire drills at home and the gun range paly a pivotal role in mastering the are of marksmanship. In the blog, we will explore the significance of incorporating dry fire drills into your training regimen and how they contribute to building a solid foundation for responsible and effective firearm use.

First off before you start your drills, please follow the four safety rules every gun owner should follow no matter where they are practicing, the firearm is loaded with live rounds, dummy rounds, or unloaded.

1.      Always treat every firearm as if it were loaded.

2.      Always point the firearm at anything you are not willing to destroy.

3.      Always keep your finger off the trigger and outside the trigger guard.

4.      Always know your target, what’s beyond it, and what’s around it.

Understanding Dry Fire Drills:

Dry fire drills involve simulating the act of firing a gun without ammunition. This allows shooters to practice various aspects of shooting, such as trigger control, sight alignment, drawing from a holster, and placing your firearm back in your holster without looking, in a controlled and safe environment. The absence of live rounds ensures that no accidental discharges can occur, making it a valuable tool for both beginners and experienced shooters.

Developing Muscle Memory:

One of the primary benefits of dry fire drills is the development of muscle memory. Repetitive actions, such as proper trigger control and sight alignment, become ingrained into your subconscious. This muscle memory translates into more consistent and accurate shooting when transitioning to live fire. By practicing these fundamental skills regularly, you build a foundation that can be relied upon in high-stress situations.

Cost-Effective Training:

Live ammunition costs are on the rise, and frequent trips to the gun range can add up quickly with the cost of gas going up as well. Dry fire drills provide a cost-effective alternative to live fire exercises, allowing shooters to practice regularly without breaking the bank. This accessibility encourages consistent training, ensuring that skill development continues over time.

Safe and Controlled Environment:

Safety should always be the top priority when handling firearms. Dry fire drills offer a controlled environment where shooters can focus on techniques without the distraction of live rounds and the recoil of their firearm. This controlled setting allows for the identification and correction of bad habits, ultimately contributing to a safer overall shooting experience.

Holster Proficiency:

For those who carry concealed, mastering the art of drawing form a holster is crucial. Dry fire drills allow individuals to practice drawing and presenting their firearm safely and efficiently. This skill is invaluable in self-defense situations where split-second decisions can make all the difference. Individuals will be able to learn:

1.      Where they prefer to carry their firearm Appendix, three o’clock, six o’clock, ect.

2.      How to draw their firearm form concealment

3.      How to holster their firearm without looking

4.      What holster works for them Leather, Kydex, or a combination of both

5.      Why holster retention is important, if you can’t run with your gun holstered you need a new holster!

6.      Do you want to carry more than on magazine, where are you going to carry it

Enhancing Mental Focus:

Beyond the physical aspects of shooting, dry fire drills also contribute to mental focus and discipline. By consciously engaging in the repetitive motions required for accurate shooting, shooters develop a heightened sense of concentration and mindfulness. This mental discipline is transferable to live fire scenarios, where split-second decisions and clear thinking are essential.

In the pursuit of mastery, every toll at a shooter’s disposal should be utilized, and dry fire drills are no exception. Whether practiced at home or at the gun range, these drills provide an opportunity to refine essential skills, build muscle memory, and foster a mindset of safety and precision. By incorporating dry fire drills into your training routine, you not only enhance your proficiency with firearms but also contribute to a culture of responsible gun ownership and usage. Remember, becoming a skilled and responsible shooter requires a holistic approach, and dry fire frills are a critical piece of that puzzle.

Remember when seconds count and help is minutes away you are your own first responder.

Stay safe my friends.

Bart Goldbar

Goldbar Defense LLC